Monday, January 30, 2012

How can I get my girl to be a little bit tougher?

My girlfriend is such a pansy..

She'll like, hit her hand on something round and start flipping out and like..fuss over it for like, 20 minutes...



She also will trip on herself and fall onto some carpet or grass or soemthing else soft like a pillow and say that she might have broken something..she says it like she's joking..but she'll keep going on and on about it..and when i tell her its not funyn she gets real upset and storms around and pouts...

How can I get my girl to be a little bit tougher?
well, it sounds like she's really trying to play up the "i'm a fragile girl" routine. to be honest, just ignore her behavior. she sounds really young, but you didn't mention age. i'm one of those girls who don't like anyone to do anything for me, but since i've been with my husband, i let him carry my bags, etc. it sounds like your girlfriend needs to realize that she won't get babied if she keeps doing it. if it really bugs you, break up with her. she'll learn then.
Reply:What you need to do is make sure she is not really hurt. Then ignore her. This will make her act out even more. Ignore that. When she understands that she needs to do something else to get attention she will do that instead. Give her positive attention when she does something helpful or kind. Then she will change.
Reply:I think she's sweet and you should Love that woman, they are hard to fined.
Reply:tell her to knock it off or you will leave her. sounds like she likes the attention

i like tenderness and play but I can take a punch and give one
Reply:woah she sounds like a little kid if it's like that pretend and say " i'll kiss your boo boo and it'll be all better and if you feel the pain that means it's working." hahah or just DUMP HER because that sounds like SUPPERRR ANNOYING!!
Reply:maybe working out in a gym might help
Reply:i think it is ok for a girl t be like that... but what if ur bf is like that? hmm
Reply:Have you tried putting her over your knee and spanking her? That might work.
Reply:its those little things you love about her.
Reply:what a brat! sorry, date an athlete if u want a tough gal. its not fair to date a daddys girl and expect her to change for u.
Reply:TEACH HER BOXXING.
Reply:Sounds like she is acting like a SPOILED BRATT
Reply:Sounds more like she's looking for sympathy than anything.
Reply:Attention seeker....plain and simple, if you dont like it, tell her to knock it off....Can anyone say Hypocondriac?
Reply:leave her and that should toughen her up.
Reply:give her a "real" experience she cannot forget.......
Reply:My daughter is the same way. No pain tolerance at all. She is 31 now and married with two kids and she hasn't toughed up much at all.
Reply:Go camping.
Reply:Wow. That's pretty sad. Nothing gets me to cry histericly like that! Really, you got an emotional one there. If she's in that deep there is no turning back.
Reply:give her something to really complain about


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