How Do I End Up With These Guys?

I end up with men that are over sensitive. Which some is OK but their - lack of a better word- pansy!! I want a dude that matches my dominant personality! I really do like them their nice, but I don't think their for me. How can I find the guys for me?

How Do I End Up With These Guys?
You know what they say...opposites attract. If you want a really dominant guy, try acting more submissive. That should attract one to you. You may not like it though because you and he may end up in a power struggle.
Reply:well with your dominance, go for the type of guys you like, they can be around, it wouldnt matter. it is kinda hard to say where they might be becuz shy or not shy, they can be anywhere...
Reply:Patience is a virtue.

You don't look for them, they'll go searching for you.
Reply:Be a buddy with them first. I think alot of guys will put on a front and will be overly sensitive, thing that it will impress you. If you friends first than you know them and they know you. No reson to front. I tried to be like that with a girl and she just told me straight up.
Reply:Sometimes opposites attract. As a shy person, the first guy I really liked was the total opposite of me- loud %26amp; outgoing. But, yes I think it's better in the long run to have the same type of personalities. There's always the computer match places where they give you a personality profile %26amp; match you, but make sure their legit- like e-harmony.
Reply:Simply look for men who are assertive and make the first move.

You need to find someone equal to you, so date around and look for the tell-tale signs of a man gone soft.

Dominant personalities attract submissive personalities, only because the one needs to be told what to do and the others not afraid to say it.

I find eyes are tell tale signs, find someone that can look at you directly when they talk.
Reply:there are a whole lot of guys in this world. you jus need to wait. eventually you will find him i promise.
Reply:Hmm, you might want to hang out in different places?



But be sure not to go to the other end, and date a macho/chauvinist.
Reply:Maybe you really need a man like the ones you have been finding. Maybe your dominant personality wouldn't really fit with someone who is also dominant? Do you like to be dominant, or do you really wish to be the submissive one? In my experience, men that are dominant are the men that are assholes.
Reply:go try and do something wild and crazy that you know you'd enjoy men love to see women who smile and takee control i promise you'll find mr right that way
Reply:Start by figuring out why you are attracted to the guys you are attracted to "Pansies" and figure out what it is that YOU do that attracts them to you. The only way you could "end up" with these guys is if YOU date them to begin with. So you must be attracted to them.
Reply:you can find someone like you by going to where the creatures meet. You may have to work hard to find it but the magical trout Fergus shall snifle the way through the wayward haze.
Reply:Do not use MySpace! There are stalkers on there, and even though some of the guys you meet may actually be real, they may be making up a fake personality. Find a place where tough guys hang out. If you know some guys with dominant personalities, ask them where they hang out and see if their is anyone you like! But you never know, you may just like a sensitive guy someday! Hope this helps! :)
Reply:Does he cry during sex?
Reply:well sit down and write out alist of things you want and things you don't want .. and since dating sites are popular now a days go to one and put in your likes and dislikes and see what you get back then and don't settle for less than what you want because you won't be happy if you do..
Reply:Well I'm basically an emotional vacuum, if thats what you're looking for.