Ladies: Do you want a sensitive guy or a guy with some bravado?

I am still confused as to what ladies actually want...and when I think I got it...I find out I am further from the truth.



I just want to know, which side of me should I emphasize more?



I have a sensitive side that enjoys planning a romantic weekend, or showing a lady a poem I had written ( I am a published poet)



I also have a side that drives for hours just to watch a football game, who works out at the gym until I get sick, or play basketball until...well until I get sick.



Which should I emphasize more? Cause sometimes I hear ladies say "I want a sensitive guy" but also "sensitive guys are pansies"

Ladies: Do you want a sensitive guy or a guy with some bravado?
I think both are important and attractive qualities. We want both. More importantly show whichever side you are feeling at the time. Be yourself because if you aren't and you are being what you think someone wants you to be you will probably end up with the wrong person and eventually you will have to be yourself with them and then you are both confused. So don't worry about what they other person wants so much be sure they like you for you.
Reply:Wat Girls really look out for is a man who has a balance of both i.e sensitive some and brave some. It's not likely that all guys wud turn out to be some hardcore macho man puncher lol and not all sensitive guys becomes pansies lol the pansies r those who r overtly sensitive and thats crap chigga it's no fun it makes u feel sick to death lol atleast i can't tolerate too much sensitivity. But yeah I am not gonna deny that i also look for sensitivity in a guy but it has to have it's limits. Too much of everything screws up so striking a balance is wat a guy shud understand and maybe try to do some necessary changes in ur personality.
Reply:i say you're perfect just the way you are.

no need to emphasize on something. just be yourself. you can be sensitive at times and "macho" or more independant at others. it's the combination that will make women crazy about you. of course it all depends on the woman but i'd go for 60% sensitive, 40 % bravado. more sensitive looks weak more bravado makes you look like a pig at times...
Reply:ur true self!!!
Reply:Sorry, but this is a question that does not have an answer. You're trying to open an age long, unresolved case.

It's simply trying to investigate into "What women want".

It is impossible to understand women. Trust me.

What most of them claim, is that they want a mix. They will talk about 40% this and 60% that... but trust me, u never gonna find out the right proportions needed for the right time. Sorry to disappoint you, but it's always gonna remain a mystery.

Case closed.
Reply:Show both by just being yourself. Being overly sensitive though will get you NOWHERE. I don't care what women say about that, it's the truth.
Reply:ok. they say sensitive guys are pansies? not true. they are the real men of the world. they dont put on an act for the world. to me that makes them cowards. thats also why i think gay men who are OUT of the closet are more masculine than any tough acting straight guy cuz they arent afraid to show their individuality to the world. so my answer to you is be sensitive but stay masculine at the same time.